It is Judy's fortieth birthday and the day of the not very surprise party. Leo wants to buy her a really lovely present but is strapped for cash. Party preparations are afoot at the Macdonald household and Pam's not happy about the gaudy makeover of ... (more)her home - but that's nothing compared to how she feels when she learns the truth about Judy - and discovers that she is the last family member to be told. Leo proposes to Judy, but she assumes he is joking and turns him down. He puts on a brave face but is broken-hearted. While the party gets underway, Pam goes round to the Arkley house to have a very difficult conversation with Judy: "I've hit a woman before, oh yes! And don't think I wouldn't lay one on a transsexual!" Is this the end of the road for Leo and Judy?